Are you at lost for words or get tongue-tied with single women or men when on a first date? Here are some topics you may be able to discuss about on your first date to make it a success.
What kind of type are you attracted to? – This is some very valuable information to learn from your date. Once you know what kind of turns him/her on, you can try to adopt your personality traits and character traits to fit her/his needs in a partner. If you can’t live up to the expectations in a partner, then perhaps it’s not the right partner for you.
- People specially women love to talk about their friends – Just simply ask about her/his circle of friends. Talk about how they met, what they like to do when they hang out together, the good times they have had together, places they have been, etc.
Ask what she/he likes to do in her free time – This is very important information to know to determine if you have any common interests. Truly compatible couples share common interests. If you don’t like the same things, this can cause problems in a relationship. It would also be helpful to ask about hobbies. Who knows, you may both enjoy the same hobbies and this can create a strong bond between you
Do you have any brothers or sisters? – Most single people have a brother or sister and this is a safe topic for discussion. Your date will usually be willing and open to talk about their brother or sister. Hopefully, it will be positive feedback about them
Have you been anywhere lately or been on a vacation? – People in general like to talk about the places they have been and their travel experiences. Try to get your date to talk about the sites and places she/he would like to visit. This way you can offer to take your date there and make her/his dreams come true. Plus, your date may mention some places you’ve been and you both can share your experiences.