We have some interesting news for you…
Attractive women know within seconds of seeing and/or interacting with you, if you’re a sexually aware, confident man. And they make the unconscious decision of whether or not you’re a possible sexual partner within a maximum of a few minutes of interacting with you. These unconscious decisions are made mostly on the basis of body language and voice tone.
And since we know that “Attraction isn’t a Choice”, we can generalize the following:
If you don’t know what types of body language communicate that you’re one of these “sexy beast” guys, you’re probably not doing the right things “by accident”.
The words you say actually don’t matter much. What matters is HOW you say them, both with your voice and with your body language.
It is possible to learn how to communicate that you’re a “sexually aware, confident man” using your body language and voice tone. Learning this skill will make attracting women MUCH easier. Unfortunately, most men are too caught up in the idea of being macho and independent to work on this area of their life… and as a result, they waste most of their time in “quiet desperation”, never seeing any real improvement because they don’t seek help and use the help to improve.
In short, if you don’t know whether or not you project the kind of body language and voice tone that makes women feel that emotional jolt of sexual attraction, then you can bet your last dollar that you aren’t. What’s a guy to do? Learn it, then use it.
When I first started learning about how to meet women, I can remember thinking that I needed to learn pick up lines and other tricks. I had no idea that this stuff was basically useless without the all-important understanding of how body language works.
After a lot of trial and error, I started to realize that when my body language and voice tone were correct, I could say almost anything to women, and they would feel attraction.